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zeldathemes

Going on something of a hiatus for two weeks, posting will be either nonexistent or intermittent due to sporadic wifi.

Feel free to message me, as that will always be the first thing I check when I have wifi.

Wishing you all well, my loves.

1 week ago on July 18th | J | 1 note

lupinely:

'black widow!! is it true that you're sleeping with captain america?'

the three-second clip of nat smirking and responding, coyly, ‘sure, which one?’ plays on the news for what steve’s sure is a perfect 24-hour loop

'this is a nightmare' steve says

'whatever' nat says. 'it was…

1 week ago on July 18th | J | 1,352 notes
I was kind of inspired by you answering someone else so I decided to ask you this. I know this girl and I like her a lot and I really want to ask her out but I'm nervous. Not that she'll reject me, but that if she does reject me that she won't want to even be friends anymore. That's the only reason I haven't asked her out yet.

Anonymous

YO

IT IS VITAL THAT WHEN YOU ASK HER OUT (and it’s gotta be when, okay, don’t just sit on this) YOU MAKE IT CLEAR THAT IT ISN’T AN ALL OR NOTHING TYPE SITUATION

YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER, BUT IF YOU COULD MAKE OUT EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE THAT WOULD BE GOOD TOO

Make it clear that you’re not looking for only a romantic relationship. Make it clear that if she does reject you, you still want to be her bud. That romance isn’t all you want from her. That friendship isn’t a consolation prize. A lot of people forget that relationships that aren’t sexual or romantic often have a longer shelf life than those that are. There is nothing “less than” about being friends. Make that clear to her.

Go for it, bud. Good luck. Let me know how it goes.

1 week ago on July 18th | J | 4 notes
i remember you saying that watership down is one of your favorite books--i just finished it and i'm in awe. i was skeptical for the first part of the book but once i got into it i couldn't stop reading! i'm not sure exactly how a book about rabbits manages to be so compelling but it absolutely is


You have no idea how happy this makes me. When people like your book recommendations it’s the best kind of affirmation out there.

1 week ago on July 17th | J | 0 notes
hey so this is probably kinda silly to ask and i really hope im not wasting your time but i think i might like girls? im not sure because whenever i try and bring it up with people i trust (namely my family) they say that i cant say i like girls if ive never been with a girl (romantically or otherwise) but they wont let me be with a girl bc they want me to be straight but girls are really pretty and nice and im so confused im sorry to ask you but what do i do?

Anonymous

Sorry that I’m replying to this a little late, I didn’t have a chance until now.

I’ve said it once, I’ll say it again. You validate your own feelings, other people can’t validate them for you.
Your family isn’t big on you being bisexual? Tough patoolies. They’ll get over it.
Fun fact: my family is the same way. I’ve never been in a romantic relationship with a girl, but I still consider myself bi (or pan— frankly I don’t consider myself anything, but that’s a conversation for another day) regardless of what they say.

Look, if you like a person, that’s all that matters. Life is too short, too shitty, and too inconsistent to ignore the good feelings when you have them.

You can’t wait for acceptance. Because sometimes it isn’t going to come. Sometimes people aren’t going to be okay with things that are important to you. Which sucks, but when this happens, you’re required to ask yourself a basic question: “is this important enough to me that I need to stand by my beliefs, or can I step back and compromise?”
When the topic is sexuality, I’m inclined to say it’s the former rather than the latter.

You can’t convince people who won’t be convinced. All you can do is kiss the girl, and hope for the best. In all respects.

1 week ago on July 17th | J | 5 notes
plays

gameandwatch:

this video literally changed my life

1 week ago on July 17th | J | 87,069 notes

Today I was at work and I saw this guy who not only looked IDENTICAL to Seb Stan, but also had a prOSTHETIC ARM and I started by saying, “hey you know who you look like?” And then he fucking sighs and goes, “you’re about to be the fourth teenage girl today to tell me I look like Sebastian Stan” and I’m fucking

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 20 notes

teamfreekickass:

I’m a very quiet extrovert and a very loud introvert all at the same time

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 881 notes
Tagged as: #thank you 
I need some advice. There's this guy I like who likes(liked?) me back and we've been talking everyday for a few weeks. On Monday night he called me and everything seemed fine when we hung up but then on Tuesday he didn't talk to me at all and I asked him if he was mad at me and he didn't reply. It's now Wednesday and he still hasn't talked to me. He gets on fb so I know he CAN talk to me. I wanna know what's going on but I don't want to keep messaging him and looking clingy/needy. What do I do?

Anonymous

Give him some space. If you can’t think of a really obvious reason that he might be mad at you, the likelihood of that being the cause is slim. It most likely doesn’t have anything to do with you. Don’t sweat it. Let him come to you, don’t pester. He might be dealing with something different altogether.

Also— and I feel this is important to say, because a lot of people don’t seem to get it —you don’t have to talk to someone every single day in order for your relationship to be important or strong. My best friend and I message one another intermittently. There was a period where I’d feel bad if I didn’t reply to him right away, or if I didn’t get a message back instantly— but then I remembered. People have other things going on, and often you’re a small part of their big life. That’s not a bad thing— it’s an honour just to be a part at all.
My gentleman friend and I sometimes will go a few days without talking, but I know he still likes me and I still like him. We’re just doing other stuff. It’s important that your life doesn’t revolve around a relationship. It’s not healthy.

You need to have other things to focus on in your life. And sometimes, it’s okay to need a break from a person. It’s not that you’re mad at that person, or you don’t like them anymore— it’s just you need some time with yourself, or with other people.

It’s good to have space in a relationship.

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 4 notes

#god the gleeful morbidity of this series makes me glad to be alive

#NO BUT HOLD ON #CAN WE JUST PICTURE THAT FOR A MOMENT #NED IS MAKING OUT WITH THIS GIRL AND THEN THINGS GET #~hot’n’heavy~ #AND THEN SUDDENLY THEY ROLL OVER ONTO THIS BEARSKIN RUG #AND THEN ALL OF THE SUDDEN #THIS BEAR COMES TO LIFE WHILE THEY’RE GOING AT IT #AND THE GIRL IS LIKE “WHAT THE FUCK” #AND NED IS LIKE “OH FOR FUCK’S SAKE” #AND THEN HE HAS TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO RE-DEAD THIS BEAR #WITHOUT HER KNOWING THAT IT’S HIM #pushing daisies is a beautiful show

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 40,558 notes
#You don’t understand how happy this picture makes me #all the crap on the coffee tables #they were obviously just hanging out and drinking #Rhodey with a beer in hand #Mjolnir just resting on the table #the sheer number of beers on the tables #the chinese food boxes #the way that Clint is sitting on the couch #the way that Steve and Tony are looking at whoever is talking #like whatever they’re saying is kind of hilarious and stupid at the same time #and the way that Rhodey just looks so absolutely done with everything #like they’re just having a guys’ night #oh my god it makes me so happy #like did they watch a movie? #did they play ping-pong and did Clint just whoop everyone? #did Bruce join in the fun or did he stay at home? #is that him sitting next to Steve or is that Thor? #and is Thor wearing ~civilian clothing~ #and if so who bought his clothing? #like was it Darcy or Jane or did Clint take him on a shopping spree? #and if he’s in civilian clothing does he just take mjolnir everywhere with him regardless of what he’s wearing? #and Clint why are you sitting on the couch like that #are you uncomfortable sitting on the couch like a normal person? #and did Tony invite everyone over? #like did he send out a text message?? #does he have everyone’s cell numbers??? #was he just like #’hey guys let’s get together’ #did Steve show up with a brown paper bag full of chinese food?? #why does Tony seem so dressed up? #and Rhodey? #is Natasha there too? #or is Steve the one drinking white wine? #(bc let’s be serious here Steve totally drinks white wine) #did Clint and Nat carpool? #did they pick Steve up on the way there? #NO BUT SERIOUSLY WHY IS CLINT ON THE COUCH LIKE THAT #whY ARE THEY DOING THESE THINGS #I NEED TO KNOW

#You don’t understand how happy this picture makes me #all the crap on the coffee tables #they were obviously just hanging out and drinking #Rhodey with a beer in hand #Mjolnir just resting on the table #the sheer number of beers on the tables #the chinese food boxes #the way that Clint is sitting on the couch #the way that Steve and Tony are looking at whoever is talking #like whatever they’re saying is kind of hilarious and stupid at the same time #and the way that Rhodey just looks so absolutely done with everything #like they’re just having a guys’ night #oh my god it makes me so happy #like did they watch a movie? #did they play ping-pong and did Clint just whoop everyone? #did Bruce join in the fun or did he stay at home? #is that him sitting next to Steve or is that Thor? #and is Thor wearing ~civilian clothing~ #and if so who bought his clothing? #like was it Darcy or Jane or did Clint take him on a shopping spree? #and if he’s in civilian clothing does he just take mjolnir everywhere with him regardless of what he’s wearing? #and Clint why are you sitting on the couch like that #are you uncomfortable sitting on the couch like a normal person? #and did Tony invite everyone over? #like did he send out a text message?? #does he have everyone’s cell numbers??? #was he just like #’hey guys let’s get together’ #did Steve show up with a brown paper bag full of chinese food?? #why does Tony seem so dressed up? #and Rhodey? #is Natasha there too? #or is Steve the one drinking white wine? #(bc let’s be serious here Steve totally drinks white wine) #did Clint and Nat carpool? #did they pick Steve up on the way there? #NO BUT SERIOUSLY WHY IS CLINT ON THE COUCH LIKE THAT #whY ARE THEY DOING THESE THINGS #I NEED TO KNOW

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 190 notes

anthonymackies:

New Avengers: Age of Ultron pictures from Entertainment Weekly.

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 24,084 notes

spookymodernjazz:

natasha romanoff is the kind of person who could kill you with her bare hands if she had to but she is also probably the kind of person who would purposely take the squeaky chair and wobble on it and drive everyone crazy

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 34,212 notes
Tagged as: #superheroes 

timelordangel:

we all have that one band that when you listen to it it’s like talking to an old friend that has never let you down and somehow it makes everything better

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 31,978 notes
Tagged as: #Bowling for Soup 

jaclcfrost:

selfless characters loving selfish characters

selfish characters loving selfless characters

me crying in the background

1 week ago on July 16th | J | 40,897 notes